Friday, 11 March 2016
Michelle Obama stuns in floral dress at the state dinner for Canada's new leader Justin Trudeau and wife(Photos)
Photos: Woman who waited for 3 years to have a child, dies after giving birth to triplets in Lagos
"An appeal has been made by Mr Adekunle Balogun of Abesan Estate in Ipaja to the Lagos state government, for assistance over his triplets. Titilayo, the mother of the triplets died shortly after the CS conducted on her at the Ifako Ijaiye general hospital on February 10. Late Titilayo was married for three years without a child and just when she was about to start enjoying motherhood, the cold jaws of death snatched her.
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"My husband is gay," former Minister's daughter in-law, Christina Onwuliri alleges
In what she describes as "A Hell Called Marriage In Onwuliri's Home", the embattled daughter in-law to former Minister of State for Education and later Foreign Affairs, Lady Viola Onwuliri has granted a detailed interview based on her experiences from marriage and domestic violence. Christina Onwuliri (Nee Amaefula) who is married to the former Minister's son, Chukwuemeka Osmond Onwuliri explains why her documents were seized, and to what really led to the detachment of her two daughters.
Excerpt:
Most people are wondering why such issue became a public affair. Why?
Some
people kept asking why this matter became a public affair. What would I
have done when I tried all I could to hide this issue from my dad and
close family members? There was nobody around my husband’s place that I
didn’t talk to. Some were unable to speak. Some were scared to get into
the matter because of his mother. Some were looking out for an
opportunity to cause more harm to our marriage. The one that pains me
the most was when I took it to our marriage sponsor. I expected a better
resolve towards it. At least when disagreement occurs in marriage, one
would either try resolving it, or to even talk to a family member that
understands. But here, I protected it from my family, to an extent that
they will call to know what was happening, yet I will pretend to the
very high level that nothing happened just to keep my home. When it ran
out of hands with abuse after abuse, I went to see our marriage sponsor.
He claimed to understand the whole situation, but later, I was
disappointed to see him trying to seduce me. He promised to offer
anything that will bring happiness to my life only if I will go to bed
with him. What happiness? When my home is on fire? When I can’t even
enjoy the joy of marriage? I felt highly disappointed and depressed. It
was as if nobody was around for me. I could have called my family, but
their option may not have been the best then, because the treatment I
was getting is a total insult to them, especially to my dad.
When your family later knew of what you were passing through, what did they suggest or do?
When
my dad later knew of what happened, he silently called my husband,
asking him to secretly dissolve the marriage in Canada since it wasn’t
working. And I knew why he told him that. He never wanted our problem to
be at the public. He made that suggestion to save the image of my
husband’s family, especially the mum who was serving as a Minister then.
But, my husband didn’t oblige to it till when we returned to Nigeria.
What led to your return to Nigeria?
It
was in one of the interferences of my mother in-law. She said that my
husband is not obliged to keep me in Canada where we based or elsewhere
in the world. And after this encounter with her, my husband told me we
will be visiting Nigeria in February. I had no misgivings about it.
When
we arrived to the family house in Owerri, I noticed the presence of a
Catholic priest, Rev. Fr. Jude Onuoha, a serving Honourable member at
the Imo State House of Assembly, Hon. Mike Iheanetu and few others that I
don’t know their names. Later, I noticed that my husband picked up a
bag and was leaving without prior information to me. Cautiously, I
approached him to know where he was going, but to my greatest surprise,
he violently pushed me into a room and locked me up.
At
that point, I saw those men taking my children away without my consent.
Then, I started screaming and was helpless but had no option than to
start breaking the window panes in the room to get myself out. When they
saw I was breaking the glasses, one of the drivers opened the door and I
came out shouting for help, and then my children were nowhere to be
found.
What exactly will you say made them to seize your papers?
You
know I have dual citizenships. Through marriage, he came to Canada on
Immigrant Status basis. They don’t want an immediate termination to all
these benefits, and that’s why they are working so hard to paralyze from
taking steps at least till their consultations. I have been used here. I
have been humiliated. I have been traumatized. But I kept asking, is he
not the same man that promised to love and cherish me as a wife? What
went wrong? What did I do to him? Even if every other person fails to
understand the challenges we faced as a family, why will his case be
different? I have sacrificed everything to keep this marriage, yet, he
kept frustrating my efforts with his actions. Is it when I die from
domestic violence that I will be appreciated as a wife?
From
the pictures released by your husband, one would be wondering how you
went about to cause that number of damages. How true were those
pictures?
When
I saw them, I got surprised at it all. I wondered how it all happened.
But no matter the circumstances, I like being truthful to myself first.
One is that I told you I damaged the window pane to get myself out of
the house when I got locked up. It’s self-defense. What surprised me
most after all that happened were numbers of photos released. I saw
areas I didn’t even visit. I saw damages beyond what I placed my hands
on. I never did all that. Heaven knows, I didn’t. It was their own
buildup to make their claims look real and strong. Besides, how could
they have allowed me to cause that number of damage when they were all
around? They are out to destroy me and the image of my family. I never
did all that.
He even accused you of being mad?
You
read it! And we are here now, at least you asked for this very
interview probably to hear from me and to observe if I’m mad as he
claims. You are now in a better position to read his lines of accusation
one after the other, and then refute them yourself based on the true
fact you’ve seen. I am not mad. I never suffered from madness. And I
will not suffer from one. Remember, this is a man who came and asked for
my hand in marriage. Traditionally you know what it is to enquire about
somebody you want to marry, and which after being satisfied with it
all, you boldly go on to ask for the person’s hand in marriage. He did
all that, and we also did ours. We are not here to accuse anybody of
anything in the past we saw before going into our marriage agreement.
But why are they accusing me and my family wrongly? What is our offence?
They took away my little daughters. They took away my traveling
documents, passports and academic certificates. What for?
He claims that his late father gave your dad his job as a lecturer. How true is it?
No
single truth around it at all. They did nothing. Even when his mum took
my credentials to get me a job, what happened? She kept misplacing
them. Whether she was saying the truth or not, I can’t tell. But I know
she never took anything about me serious because she hated me. I’ve been
called to represent my husband at most family meetings, but she will
walk me out saying I’m not a member of her family. Or is it the one that
concerns my family? The only time she visited my father’s house was
during the traditional wedding where she spent just four hours and left.
Since then, she has not visited again. We even had issue of who visits
our home from my father’s family house. They enlisted names of people
they would want to come to the house or not to come. When I questioned
that, they said they never wanted my people to finish their money. What
money? These were people coming to visit their sister and daughter who
left home for marriage.
In
Port Harcourt as well, whenever his mum will be visiting us, she will
come with her own food in a flask. At a point, he told the son that
whenever she will be coming to Port Harcourt and finds out he is not at
home that she will not stopover. What did I not pass through? I passed
through hell in their hands.
Please,
don’t forget, my dad got employed as a lecturer in 2006, and then we’ve
not met any member of their family before. Remember, we met around
2011. And till this time, I’m yet to find out how they gave my dad his
job.
When did the attitude of your mother in-law changed towards you?
She
never had it comfortable being with me as the son’s wife. I noticed it,
even as I stood not to accept the marriage, but then, my husband was so
desperate to get me into the family. Even when I confronted him over
the mum’s discomfort towards me, he would cover it up with words like
I’m getting married to him not his mum. And then, I would wonder what I
was coming into the family to do when I can’t see his mother as my own
my mother. But something solidified my position of acceptance. His late
father did. The late Prof stood against all wrongs in the family that we
were all afraid to dare his principles. Well respected man with great
values, he gave me all confidence to be a member of his family. But when
I went through abuse, depression and rejection, he was nowhere around
to stand by me. He was nowhere to consolidate on his words to me and to
my family. I think his death caused the biggest damage.
What further happened after the death of Professor Celestine Onwuliri?
My
mother in-law took over everything by becoming a mini-god. She decides
who stays and goes. I couldn’t even suggest what my husband could listen
to. Even all advises ended up in the mother’s ear. It was as if I had
no confider again. At slight issues, he would raise his hands and will
beat me like a common criminal. Between 2011 and 2014, while I was
living in Port Harcourt with my husband, he physically and mentally
abused me. For example, when arguments concerning on way forward in the
marriage, he gets infuriated and physically beats me and locks me up in
the toilet for as long as he wishes. I will cry and cry, but tears will
dry without anyone consoling me.
Do you think your husband cheated on you?
It
depends on the type of cheating. If you mean the kind of cheating that
involved him with another woman, I wouldn’t know. And I can’t accuse him
wrongly. But if it’s based on the fact that he masturbated while in my
presence, and even as he moves with some male friends as if they were
dating, I think I will agree to it.
Masturbated in your presence?
Of
course, he did. It irritated me so much that I didn’t know what to do. I
felt a time why he would engage into such. I mean, I’m his wife and he
had me around. What stopped him from taking me to bed to catch some
relieve of whatsoever? He would just be masturbating, while I will be
there crying. Most times he would travel after my mum would have sent
sum money for my up-keep and that of the family, but he will disappear
with it only to return looking so weak. The truth is that he is a gay.
He lied to his mum just to stay overseas, because he knew that's where
he can only stay to indulge in such habits. While in Canada, he was
bringing men to our home, even as he would sleep with them on our
matrimonial bed.
Why was your mum sending money for the family’s up-keep?
You
know my husband lost his job at Schlumberger, and his papers were
stamped unemployable. Since then, we have tried getting another job for
him but no way. Even his mum who was a Minister could not get him a job.
At least to tell you how serious it was.
Why did he slap the French woman?
He
said he can’t work under a woman. And at slight times, he would brag of
his mum being a Minister. He even said that if the French woman tries
misbehaving that the mum will use her contacts against her. When he lost
his job, I wondered why his mum couldn’t save the situation again.
Thursday, 10 March 2016
Because of Piss? Mechanic kills Friend for Urinating near shop
Trouble started in the park around 11am on Tuesday between Oshare and the friend, identified as Rasta, after he (Rasta) allegedly urinated beside a stationary truck.
Oshare challenged the deceased for messing up the spot, said to be a few steps from his shop. As Rasta tried to calm him, he reportedly slapped him, which led to a scuffle.
According to Punch, the mechanic, who was livid with anger, grabbed two bottles and stabbed the friend in the neck. He was also said to have injured some people who attempted to caution him.
Rasta reportedly bled from his injuries and he was rushed to a hospital for treatment. He, however, died before he could get help. Many shops in the park have remained closed out of fear.
A trader, Mrs. Ufom Benedict, said she tried to stop Oshare when he rushed to her shop, looking for knife.
The Chairman of the park, Mr. Martins Animashaun, said allowing traders into the park also contributed to the incident. He added that miscreants had turned the park into a hideout.
He said, “There was problem between two friends. Along the line, one died and the other one was rushed to the hospital. They are not our members. I was in the office yesterday (Tuesday) when I saw people running around and I called the police. They are still investigating the matter.
“Here is a state government-owned park and it is porous. If it is secured, we can manage people inside it. When we leave in the evening, some miscreants come here to sleep. This place is solely earmarked for a park, but along the line, the local government allowed traders into the park and turned it into a market. The more people come in, the more the problem we have. We want this park to be sanitised.”
Police say Oshare is unconscious and at a hospital where he is under arrest.
BUSTED! Sophisticated Plot To Loot CBN Uncovered
The Central Bank of Nigeria (CBN) revealed on Thursday night that it had uncovered and aborted another highly and sophisticated plot to defraud it by some criminally-minded elements.
The bank also said it placed all key personnel involved in the transaction on suspension in order to ensure a full and unfettered investigation although it noted that investigations are still on.
The Acting Director, Corporate Communications, CBN, Mr. Isaac Okorafor, stated:
“This incidence has been reported to relevant authorities. The CBN
wishes to assure the general public that the security of the bank
remains intact.”
Lekki Gardens MD Arrested Over Collapsed Building & Deaths
Lagos Police Command has arrested the Managing Director of Lekki
Gardens, Mr. Richard Nyong, for the collapse of a five-storey building
under construction on Kushenla Road, Ikate Elegushi, Lagos, which killed
no fewer than 35 persons.
The young billionaire, 34-year-old Nyong, was nabbed on Thursday.
One of the contractors handling the project, Odofin Taiwo, was arrested on Wednesday. The building was said to have crumbled around 3am on Tuesday with several workers trapped in the rubble.
Lagos government had sealed the building, which was originally designed to be a three-storey structure.
“In a brazen act of defiance and impunity, the owners of the building, Messrs Lekki Worldwide Estate Limited, the promoters of Lekki Gardens, criminally unsealed the property and continued building beyond the approved floors until the unfortunate incident of Tuesday which has led to loss of lives,” a statement by the Commissioner for Information and Strategy, Mr. Steve Ayorinde had read.
The Lagos State Police spokesperson, Dolapo Badmos, confirmed the arrest. She said, “The MD, Lekki Gardens, Mr. Richard Nyong, has been arrested. He is in custody and will soon be charged to court.”
Bukola Saraki’s Asset Declaration Fraud Trial Begins Today
The Supreme Court, in a judgment on February 5, 2016, paved the way for trial to begin after dismissing the Saraki’s objection to the validity of the charges and the jurisdiction of the CCT to hear the case.
The Danladi Umar-led CCT subsequently fixed March 11 for the commencement of trial.
Already, the Federal Government has lined up 13 prosecution witnesses to testify against Saraki.
The Saraki legal team is led by Kanu Agabi (SAN). Government team is led by Rotimi Jacob (SAN).
In the charges instituted against Saraki, he is accused of making false
assets declaration in forms submitted to the Code of Conduct Bureau as a
two-term Governor of Kwara State between 2003 and 2011.
The Senate President, who was said to have submitted four assets declaration forms investigated by the CCB, was found to have “corruptly acquired many properties while in office as the Governor of Kwara State but failed to declare some of them in the said forms earlier filled and submitted.”
He also allegedly made an anticipatory declaration of assets upon his assumption of office as governor, which he later acquired.
He was also accused of sending money abroad for the purchase of property in London.
Saraki initially refused to appear for trial, prompting the CCT to issue a bench warrant against him. Let the case begin without any other "dribbling" so Nigerians can see the facts and consequences.
Imagine What Fuel Scarcity Is Causing In Nigeria
Many Generations Will Remain Grateful To Obasanjo – Buhari
Congratulating Obasanjo who turned 79 on March 5, Buhari stated that many generations would be grateful to him for the work he has done with several countries and governments of African nations.
A statement by the President’s Special Adviser on Media, Femi Adesina, said:
“President Buhari believes that Chief Obasanjo’s place in global history is assured for successfully handing over power to a civilian government in 1979 after serving as a military Head of State, and returning to power in 1999 through elections to stabilize the polity, during which he most remarkably negotiated a debt relief for Nigeria.”
“The President warmly commends Chief Obasanjo’s vision and commitment to the growth of Nigeria and Africa, which translated into a historical growth rate of 6 percent for the Nigerian economy after a long period of slow growth, and also created a rippling effect that buoyed other African economies.”
“As he turns 79, the President avers that the former president’s regular shuttles across Nigeria and Africa to counsel on economic, social and political issues, and his willingness to head election monitoring teams that have heralded smooth transitions in many countries are legacies which generations will remain grateful.”
“President Buhari prays that the Almighty God will grant the Balogun of the Owu lineage, who is also the Ekerin Balogun of the Egba clan, long life and strength to continue his service to humanity.”
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