Tuesday 8 September 2015

Should the size of the engagement ring matter in saying Yes or No?

This Article was written by the Adejoro Olumofin the Relationship Consultant aka "Doktor" Mofin
Ladies, should the size or price of the engagement ring matter? If your man isn't financially equipped or doesn't know the "rock" / ring of your dreams and yet proposes would you accept or decline? This article is inspired by an interesting story I heard from a close friend about a guy who proposed to his 2 year girlfriend with a ring which could be referred to as a "Full Stop" or a "Dot ring" i.e the rock was so small & displeasurable to her.
 She accepted the ring but didn't wear it often or put the standard ring finger picture on social media. After a few weeks her boyfriend got angry and confronted her about not posting the ring out there or telling anyone, she lashed out and said this isn't the ring of "my" dreams.

They got into a fight which eventually led to their breakup. My question; Does the size of the ring or rock matter in saying yes to your man? This issue requires a situational approach or solution as we all have different personalities, family background, or orientations. Psychologically and in my opinion a ring should serve as a symbol of love or an interest in starting a new life with another person, the price of the ring should be based on ur pocket or account at the time, if a big or small ring comes it's the gesture / idea that someone wants to spend the rest of their life with you that matters.

Most guys want to give their lady a big rock but what if there are more pressing issues like rent, business projects, health issues ; will a man leave these things or empty his account for a Big Diamond Rock? As a couple you can always upgrade your ring in time as you grow financially.

Social media and competition amongst friends has made it a " sine qua non" I.e an essential for ladies to have a big rock, some ladies have been proposed to change the way they walk or place their fingers a certain way so the world can see, if that ring was very small/tiny/cheap would u walk and put your hand in a way that will blind our eyes? Do what works for you in your own clime. Don't pass on a good man because of a variable which can be made a constant in time.

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Photo: ICPC declares civil servant wanted over N36.2m fraud

Below is a press statement from ICPC
The Independent Corrupt Practices and Other Related Offences Commission (ICPC), has declared a staff of the Federal Ministry of Agriculture and Rural Development, Mr. Joseph Tony Ogah, wanted for defrauding the Federal Government of N36.2 million. Ogah, an indigene of Idah, Kogi State, was part of a crime syndicate that defrauded the Federal Ministry of Environment.
Preliminary findings by ICPC revealed that the syndicate used a company called Soft Alliance Disco, Limited to pay huge salary arrears totaling N36, 194, 636.00 to fictitious staff on the payment platform of the Ministry of Environment. Ogah, 38 years old, allegedly, in connivance with the others perpetrated and benefited from the fraud as N9.4 million was paid into his account with the United Bank for Africa (UBA). A statement of accounts obtained from UBA revealed that the money was drawn from the Ministry of Environment and paid into the account (1006521816) belonging to Ogah.

The Commission, upon the findings requested Mr. Ogah to appear before it and answer questions regarding the transfer of money from another Ministry into his account, but he failed to do so.

The Permanent Secretary of the Ministry of Agriculture was requested on several occasions through letters to compel him to appear before ICPC but responses to the letters show that Ogah has absconded from his duty post for over three months now.

The Ministry, in response to the allegation and his failure to report to work, has stopped the payment of his salary and other entitlements since July 2015. Ogah is currently at large which has prompted the Commission to declare him wanted for fraud. Dark-complexioned Ogah’s last known address was Road 121, House 24, Gwarinpa Housing Estate, Abuja.

- RASHEEDAT A. OKODUWA
Commissioner, Public Enlightenment & Spokesperson ICPC

Kylie Jenner shows side boob on the cover of Galore magazine

Na small small...we will get to the complete nudity soon...lol. Kylie Jenner showed massive cleavage and side boob on the cover of Galore's bombshell generational issue. More photos from the photo shoot after the cut....

Iyanya gets emotional on Instagram, says he has no friend & trusts no one

As he shared on instagram...

Teenager faces10 years in jail for having photos of a minor - himself

A 17-year-old boy is facing 10 years in prison after being charged as an adult for having sexually explicit photos of a minor – that minor is himself. Cormega Copening, from North Carolina, where the age of criminal responsibility is 16, is facing two counts of second-degree sexual exploitation and three counts of third-degree exploitation.

The third-degree charges are of sexual exploitation of a minor actually stem from the pictures Copening had of himself.

Each count is a felony charge carrying at least two years in jail.
“In North Carolina you are considered an adult at 16 years old as far as being charged,” said Sgt. Sean Swain of the Cumberland County Sheriff’s Department.
“But to disseminate and receive sexually explicit texts, photos or videos, you must be over 18.”

The Authorities said the sexting charges came about when police took Copening’s phone while investigating another incident. Officers discovered ‘sext’ messages between Copening and his 16 year old girlfriend.

Both teenagers were charged as adults for the sexual exploitation of minors – themselves – for taking and possessing naked photos.

His girlfriend took a plea deal on a misdemeanor charge of ‘disseminating harmful material to minors’.

District Court Judge Stephen Stokes sentenced her to one year of probation without access to a phone, a $200 fine, and a class on making smarter life decisions.

If convicted, Copening’s name would be added to sex offenders registry. He has a Sept. 30 court appearance.

The charges have resulted in the teenage quarterback being dropped from his high school football team.

Bradley Cooper introduces Irina Shayk to his mom

After five months of dating, it looks like things are only getting more serious between Bradley Cooper and new girlfriend Irina Shayk. After spending a lot of time together on luxurious holidays, the 40-year-old actor felt it was time to take their relationship to the next level as he introduced his new flame to his mother, Gloria Campano, on Saturday.

The actor couldn't wipe the smile from his face as he spent the day with his two favourite women at a beach in Atlantic City, New Jersey.








I think he's finally found 'The One'. They seem really in love!

Governor Wike meets former President Jonathan (photos)

Rivers State Governor, Nyesom Wike met with former President Jonathan at the Samson Siasia Stadium, Yenagoa during Seriake Dickson’s declaration for second term today. They also met at Jonathan's country home in Otuoke after the event at the stadium. See more photos after the cut...


Wiz Khalifa's mom admits getting him addicted to weed

Wiz Khalifah's mom, Peachie Wimbush, says she is responsible for her son's addiction to drugs. Peachie tells The Sun;
"Before I went to work, before he went to school, it was our way of bonding. We would smoke together. He got his habit from his mother."

Army uncovers plot to undermine counter-insurgency operation

The Nigerian Army says it has uncovered plans by some international media organizations in partnership with collaborators in Nigeria to undermine ongoing operations to end insurgency in the country by accusing it of human rights violations. In a statement released today by the acting Director of Army Public Relations, Col. Sani Usman, the army said such actions, if not addressed, will thwart the gains they have so far recorded in the fight against Boko Haram.


The statement in part reads
 “It has come to our knowledge that some foreign media, Non-governmental Organisations (NGOs) and some of their Nigerian affiliates are about to start making false claims of human rights violations by the Nigerian Army. It is clear that these groups and their collaborators are not happy with the progress made in the efforts to solve the security problems bedeviling our nation as manifested in the terrorists’ activities. The implication of such act is not lost on us as it is capable of thwarting the gains in the fight against terrorism and insurgency. We would not condone any human rights abuses. Where there are allegations of human rights violation by any individual or group, this would be thoroughly investigated and those found guilty would be brought to book in accordance with extant laws. Therefore, the Nigerian Army would not succumb to blackmail and neither would it be distracted from its determined effort of defending the territorial integrity of our great nation and safeguarding the security of its citizens,’’he said

Exclusive VIP Party with Davido

The newest addition to the #NewThePlace revolution is here and set to take Lekki & Lagos Nightlife by storm. What would you be doing on Saturday 12th September from 10pm? You should be hanging out with Davido, A-List Celebs and the Freshest and Creamiest of Lekki at the re-opening party of the VIP section of The Place Nightclub Lekki by Papas at Plot 3B, Block A10 Admiralty way Lekki.

#TheNewThePlace boasts of One of A Kind club lights; exclusive VIP cozy corners; improved security systems; trained professional staff, etc. all to ensure that customers are treated to an A experience at every point within the club.

See pictures of the transformation below ...

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