They say she's one of the most beautiful transgender women in the world

Her names is Amelia Maltepe and she's been described as one of the world's most beautiful transgenders. Amelia was born a man and her birth name is Adesh. She's originally from a strict Muslim family in Bangladesh - but transitioned more than 5 years ago. See more pics after the cut...

  

Read The Reasons Male Celebrities Go For Baby Mamas

Sharing the views on why our supper entertainers prefer BIG Mamas as back in the days, unwanted pregnancy was something that made people cringe with fear of humiliation.

It was a situation that made the affected young ladies want to run away from home or change location as they couldn’t bear the constant taunts and scorn that came with their pregnancy but in the present time, not much thought is given to that situation anymore. It’s been wildly accepted as a norm in the society now.

Let’s look at various scenarios that seem to be promoting this Baby Mama trend.

Shying away from responsibilities: Men these days feel they have what it takes to have kids without being ready to go through the usual marriage rites often prefer to have baby mamas. It’s a way of dodging or shying from their responsibilities. They want children of their own because they have reached a particular stage when they feel incomplete without having kids but they don’t want to be solely responsible for them. In some cases, they cater for these kids and their mothers and sometimes they simply disappear. A desired young woman is courted briefly and gotten pregnant at the long run.

Fame: Young men of our society having attained success at a very early stage in life tend to have so much adrenalin flowing through them. They feel the urge to explore and have as many women as they want to themselves. They aren’t cautious and are nonchalant when it comes to women. Ladies on the other hand get attracted to famous men and get carried away in the bid to enjoy life to the fullest with them. Ladies throw themselves at the men without considering the consequences. I’ve heard ladies declaring their love for certain stars and the extent to which they could go just to have their kids.

Greed: Another reason why the idea of being a man’s baby mama sells more is insatiable greed. The man, because of the success attained starts to see himself as a super man and feels he’s too much of an asset to a woman. Having different women at his beck and call makes it difficult for him to stay connected to one. Commitment becomes a difficult quest. The woman too, having recognised the potentials of the man starts to see things in a long term away. His dreams and ambition gives her the impression that he would make a good life partner. Her judgement becomes cloudy while she throws caution to the wind. Even when she gets pregnant, she thinks having a baby for him would make him more endearing and settle down with her. She sees herself as an undefeatable player who stands a better chance compared to the other ladies he might be seeing. Before long, she becomes a baby mama and the man is on to the next girl that catches his fancy.

Men often go for women who have gone past the settling down age. It’s an arrangement of convenience for both parties. The women with lost interest in marriage prefer to have children of their own and care less whether the men assume responsibility or not. Most of these women are capable of raising kids on their own but only want to do so with certain men.

The baby mama idea still doesn’t sound right and it’s still pregnancy out of wedlock which has been in existence for years and has been criticised by people with morals and values. So the paparazzi of being a baby mama should be dropped a bit or rather the women should have a rethink on the issue and conduct themselves as dignified and reputable women of the society while the men step up their game and promote good cultural and sustainable values.

Source: naij

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Bringing to you the entertainment gist as-Nigerian pop star Davido met with 

president Ibrahim Boubacar Keïta of Mali yesterday in Bamako ..

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Anita Oyakhilome Reportedly Speaks on How She “Tolerated Abuse for So Long”

Last year, it was reported that Pastor Chris Oyakhilome of Christ Embassy Church, and his wife, Anita Odegwa Oyakhilome were going through a divorce. As you may recall, reports stated that Anita was filing for divorce on grounds of “adultery and unreasonable behaviour.”

And now, a website said to belong to Anita, www.pastoranita.org, contains an inspirational message apparently penned by her, in which she talks about inspiring others through the lessons she learned during a dark period when she tolerated abuse for a long time.

Read the message:

I am Anita. It is my desire to reach out and inspire you especially if you feel vulnerable and in need of a change. I hope to inspire you to believe in yourself no matter the circumstances. I want to help you recreate your life going forward, so you can live beautifully. I have been through this journey of rediscovery and nothing is as beautiful as realising one’s uniqueness as I have done. Life is precious however, your life can go through different seasons: winter, spring, summer or autumn. Life can hit you with financial loss, disappointments, death of a loved one, a broken relationship, loss of a job, a divorce, being falsely accused or being a victim of crime. These can shatter you to pieces but you can do something about it.

Life is a gift from God and you deserve to be happy irrespective of your age, race, gender, background or financial situation. I urge you to appreciate the gift you are, you are precious and valuable. Never lose sight of who you are; begin to create new visions and dreams for your life. Let nothing stop you from growing every day.

My story is not one of a bed of roses, far from it but I had a choice to either beat myself over the regret of tolerating abuse for so long or put a stop to the abuse and recreate my life for the best. My journey was not in vain. I can now help others realise that their situation does not define them. In order to move on with life, I have come to realise that nothing is permanent. Your problem is not permanent; you can do something to change it by ensuring you do not allow the situation or the person make your life miserable. Pain is a fact of life, it is inevitable but suffering is optional. You can do something to change the pain by over looking every obstacle, take control as a force of nature to grow and expand. Do what is necessary now to use the gift God has given you to unleash your purpose.

My message to all is simple: you have value therefore discover your potential. Do not allow anybody destroy you or rob you of living a joyful life. Your life is not wasted; you have just started a different phase of life. God will show you how to use your testimony to help others and restore their lives to exuberance. Please join me to encourage and inspire others. You have a story to tell, you can contribute and participate in the dialogues here. Let us all learn from one another’s experience and reach others with the gift of love and kindness. Share your experience by emailing me or making a comment. Celebrate your uniqueness because there is only one of you.

Thank you for visiting my site.

Photo Credit: www.pastoranita.org

Patoranking Living “LIFE in the SKYY”! Waje, Olisa, Falz & More lead Turn Up

And the turn up was massive indeed!

The August edition of the “Life in the Skyy” series was an exclusive reception party organised by Skyy Vodka to honour Patoranking. This was done to honour the Nigerian dancehall sensation’s recent exploits in the music industry. The venue was the exclusive roof top bar of the Maison Fahrenheit Hotel in Victoria Island, Lagos.

Bartenders kept churning out different cocktails of Skyy Vodka for guests, with DJ Caise on the decks to get the groove going. Guests were also entertained to live performances by Mr 2Kay, Falz and Patoranking who performed some of his hit tracks, including the now trending “My Woman, My Everything“.

Media personalities and celebrities present at the event include Olisa Adibua,Runtown, Waje, Fade Ogunro, IK Ogbonna, Gbemi Olateru-Olagbegi and more.

Shortly before his performance, Patoranking expressed his heart-felt appreciation to all his fans, and especially thanked Skyy Vodka for all the love. He personally autographed 54 bottles of SKYY Vodka which he gave to 54 lucky guests at the ceremony.

Abayomi Ajao, Marketing Manager, Brian Munro Limited (exclusive marketers of SKYY Vodka in Nigeria) expressed satisfaction with the success of the party, adding that the party will be replicated in Abuja and Port Harcourt to enable fans in those locations have the opportunity to party with Patoranking.

Check out photos from the event below!

Patoranking

Mo’Cheddah

Olisa Adibua

Victoria Kimani

DJ Caise

Ezinne Asinugo (CEO Dancers)

Niniola

Ifeanyi Nwune

Falz

Waje

Waje & Patoranking

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Check Out This Funny Photo of Goodluck Jonathan

I don't understand why oga GEJ is raising his shoulders up like he wanted to fly, lol! The pic was taken over the weekend as he and his wife landed in Kenya to enjoy the African country's tourist attractions.

Big Girl Collapses At The Wedding Of Her Secret Lover

This pic is going viral. According to a source, the girl was aware that the man has a serious date but was doing things with him secretly because the lady is her friend too. She was even part of the bridal train on their wedding day, but when it got to 'Kiss Your Bride' the secret girlfriend couldn't endure.

She collapsed right on the podium while the new husband and wife were kissing. #DesperadoThingz. Lol!

AT LAST: US Sending Arms to Nigeria to Finish Boko Haram

Indications have emerged that the United States’ government is finally sending arms to the Nigerian military in its efforts to crush Boko Haram in line with the new order given them by the Presidency.

Facts that the US is sending arms came on the heels of the US Ambassador to Nigeria, James Entwistle’s revelation in an interview with Punch that the US government has no arms embargo.

He said, “There’s been a lot of misunderstanding on this issue before, during and after President Muhammadu Buhari’s visit to Washington. Let me be clear about a couple of things:

One, we had worked very closely with Nigeria on the Leahy Amendment….The second piece of misinformation, which has been bandied about in (newspapers’) headlines, is that the US has lifted its arms embargo on Nigeria. There was never an arms embargo.”

According to Radio France Internationale, the US Defence Security Cooperation Agency records show that the country’s Department of Defence is set to transfer military material to Nigeria.

The RFI noted that a DSCA list of “so-called Excess Defence Articles” slated for Nigeria indicated that the US Army was about to transfer Caiman trucks, armoured vehicles designed “to defeat current and emerging threats,” according to their manufacturer, British-based BAE Systems.

The RFI added that the US government was also sending armoured vehicles known as MaxxPro MRAP (Mine Resistant Ambush Protected), made by Navistar Defence, an Illinois company, and Israeli-based Plasan Sasa.